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Reply to "5 weeks pregnant, what should I tell my friend who went through IVF and wasn't successful?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I guess it would depend on how close you are. Having been dealing with IF yourself you know how it does sting when someone else gets that good news. It's great that you're thinking about the best way to do it. If it was me and I was close enough to her to talk to her about all the IF stuff then I would probably go ahead and tell her. But I would say something like that things seem to be going in the right direction but you're nervous and not ready to talk about it more until things progress. Hopefully then she will be supportive and not press further. The reality is that it's going to hurt when she hears it but you know that has nothing to do with your success but instead with her struggle. Lying about it or trying to avoid it won't make it hurt her any less. It might be better in a way to get it over with so you're not stressing about it which you don't need right now either. [/quote]
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