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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are 31.  Stop overthinking things and just get married.  [/quote]

That's the thing if I marry.I really and truly hope it's a one time thing, but it's too early to be considering marriage seriously with this guy.

I think I'm just a little surprised at how different he is from what I thought my ideal would be, and that I still like being around him.

In the past any little thing that bothered me put me off a guy rather quickly, so far that hasn't been the case with him.

I think maybe I am finally growing up a bit and starting to consider what really matters to me.

I mentioned my ex because he was what I thought I wanted and I know of and on for 18 months seems dodgy, but within that time the times we were together it was serious, and  things ended because I realized I could never be  me and be with him, even though he was exactly what I had dreamed up in my younger days.[/quote]

But why couldn't you be you? Was he judgmental or react negatively? Or [b]was it just a fear that he wouldn't accept/love you as you really are?[/b][/quote]

More like this.  I felt I had to be someone I wasn't. I know part of being with someone is changing and  growing together and encouraging each other to be their best version blah blah blah, but you can't be afraid to be who you are or ashamed to share certain things about yourself/ family for fear of not measuring up.[/quote]

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