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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No lecturing please. It won't change my mind.

We are both married with young kids. We work in the same field, and have been business partners on a couple projects.

I'm 38. He is 45, not outwardly attractive, but respected and desired by many in the business because he has extensive business experience and integrity, he's a visionary in the field, and he's caring, friendly, and impossibly generous with his time and advice to everyone. I adore him, respect him, and think the world of him, and I make sure he knows that. but I'm not sure he knows I'm physically attracted to him and incredibly turned on by him.

We've known each other two years. He took off his wedding ring about 6 months after we started working together.

Over the last 1.5 years:
He calls me every weekday. Sometimes about business, sometimes not, and we always end up talking for hours. 
We have lunch at least weekly, followed by coffee. Sometimes we just meet for coffee, 2-4 times a week. More hours of conversation, starting into each others eyes, lots of laughter, or just working silently together. We alternate picking up the checks.
Not as often, but we have late night texts, FB msgs, and emails. Mostly philosophizing, but twice it ventured into sexual topics.
I'm Asian, and he commented once that he wanted an Asian girlfriend.

However, he never calls me on weekends, we hardly ever touch - I can count our hugs on one hand,  and he had never complimented me or bought me anything outside our meals/coffee.

I want to know if he's attracted to me, and how to start an affair with him.

Thanks.

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Just tell him you are attracted to him, that you have a crush on him. It worked for me.[/quote]

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