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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For richer or poorer... do those words ring a bell?[/quote]

How is this a helpful comment?  No where did she complain about rich / poor.  OP talked about  very real resentment that is building from a lack of partnership, feeling alone weekends, evenings holidays, etc.  Why are you posting a comment that is completely useless?  [/quote]

It's helpful in some way because sometimes the only thing that gets you through rough patches in your marriage is the fact that you made a vow to stay. That's it. Obviously, there are many layers of problems here that have little or nothing to do with DH being underemployed.[/quote]

OP again--I get it. I do think that I would regret leaving one day if I left. Although I think about leaving, in my heart, that is not the answer.  I just feel worn out from treading water for so many years and not having a life. I love my kids with all I am but I still need me time too.  I guess I just need tools to stay on the raft right now and stay sane and still love my husband.  I will find a therapist today, any suggestions?[/quote]

Where do you live and work, op?[/quote]

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