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[quote=Anonymous]Be firm and very direct with them. Don't give them reasons why they can't go visit. Simply say "a visit is not welcome at this time". If they bitch about your mother simply say "she has a lot going on managing my father's care, I'm sure she's very glad you called but most likely won't be calling you back". Blame any rudeness on grief which is 100% valid. I would have already lost it on them. You need to make sure they realize you are SERIOUS about them not coming. Because I am pretty sure that will push you over from being nice and into "get the fuck out" territory. I am so sorry about your Dad.[/quote]
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