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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You make your own dysfunction. Sorry, no sympathy.[/quote] One person cannot make an entire family dysfunctional. Sorry does not happen. Takes more than one my friend.[/quote] It only takes one person to choose to keep participating. OP its wrong to ask someone to to fly anywhere for day. You don't know whats going in their life. Maybe they decided also that your family is super dysfucntional and that they would much rather have a pleasent family holiday without insane relatives. They just made up the part about "too busy" as a way out. Good for them. You are not forced to host, attend anything. Grow up. For real. Sure it takes more than one person to make a dysfucitonal family but you are grown up. Spend the holidays with just your spouse and kids. I think 90% of suffering on the part of women is their inability to set boundaries or say no, then they want a ton of sympathy for being family martyrs.[/quote]
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