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[quote=Anonymous]Sorry, OP. My beloved uncle was dying of cancer and didn't want people to come say goodbye to him. It was REALLY hard for me to abide by his wish, but ultimately I realized that it was his decision to make and that the least I could do was honor his wishes instead of putting my own wishes first. Why can't your in-laws see this? Your DH has to be on this, and he has to make it clear that there is no universe in which it would be ok for them to go directly against your explicit wishes and against your father's wishes. In fact, your DH should extract a promise from his parents that they will not try to visit your father. If they want to say goodbye they can give your DH a note for you or a nurse to read to your dad. (And then you can decide whether to actually read it to him or not.) Good luck with the rest of your goodbye to your father. My sympathies to you and your mother.[/quote]
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