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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not healthy for your sister to be living with you long-term. Any sister. Of course you are going to run into problems with boundaries. If it's not this, it would be something else. She is far less likely make good grown-up decisions emotionally, financially, every way, when she is not out-on-her own. Work to make this happen.[/quote]

OP again: We are working on it together but she's been through a lot and she loves being around my kids. They love it, too. So for now, it's good. But it's not going to get any better with some bored predator blowing up her phone and making her think this is romance. [/quote]

I think you sound like an awesome sister, and it's really wonderful to see such a kind, loving relationship among you, her, and your family.

I think you're right that the way he got her number was a bit of a gray boundary.  Not really appropriate but in the right circumstances, with emotionally healthy people, it could be perfectly reasonable.  Unless he does something more clearly inappropriate, I think you have to let these two adults make their choices and just be there to comfort you sister when it falls apart.  [/quote]

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