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[quote=Anonymous]If your DH insists they stay with you, then you need to have him doing 80% of the work. And he needs to GO TO BATTLE for you to get some time ALONE. Your MIL sounds like a pill. She is most likely an expert at not being ignored. You need to IGNORE HER. For real. If she brings up the Kennedy Center thing, don't even acknowledge it. Practice one word or short responses. "Huh" or "interesting" or "yes you said" or "hmmm" or just a blank stare. Your DH needs to clean the living room and kitchen twice a day while they stay there. You can agree to take care of the kids and your stuff, but he must do ALL the heavy lifting for his own parents. Honestly, if he backs you up so little, I'd take this to a couple's therapist to work it out before next year. And yes, for this year, get some Xanax.[/quote]
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