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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]White parents are the ones who are uncomfortable with that situation, not anyone else. "Minorities" don't have the luxury of being uncomfortable with white people.

I'm sure OP will make a beeline for other white parents like they do at my school. It's kind of funny, it's so obvious.[/quote]

That is utter baloney.  I worked in place with mostly African American women, and they treated white women horribly.  Really, really horribly.  Some of the black women simply would not speak to any white woman just on principal.  Like, I would walk up and say hi, and they would act like I wasn't there.  One woman even told me that it wasn't personal; she just didn't like white people.  [/quote]

PP, how does your experience negate the validity of the prior PP's?  Why would you call it "utter baloney," as if the truth of your experience means that hers can't also be true?

FWIW, I'm a black woman, and I've never engaged in or witnessed such behavior towards white women in professional settings.  Perhaps I've seen such snubbing in my high school in the South, where racial tensions occasionally flared up, but not since then.  I wonder where you work.  I'm not saying this hasn't happened to you, but I hope you don't paint all black women with the same broad brush.

As to the OP's original question: I wouldn't worry too much about the majority minority setting per se.  However, I'd think long and hard about the greatschools rating of 2 (and we know greatschool ratings aren't everything, but still--2 is really low).  My child attends a predominantly AA school with a greatschools score of 8, and in speaking with parents of some of her white classmates, they're having a fantastic experience in the school. Some I've spoken with in depth about racial issues have so far not encountered any issues in this regard.  However, most of my child's classmates of all races are from similar, middle-class backgrounds, so there is less of a gap between students of different races in this regard.  As a middle/upper middle class family, we'd definitely hesitate about putting our child in a '2' school, particularly if my child would be in the racial minority in addition to being from a different SES background from most of the students--it just compounds any possible 'odd one out' difficulties, IMO.[/quote]

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