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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]1) No one gets to enter your home without your permission. If they only give a few days of advance notice, SAY NO and then suggest dates that would work. 2) Even if you have the food already, hide it if you don't want to share it: Put it in luggage in your closet, take perishables to a neighbors' house, if it is that big of a deal for you. See, you actually don't have an In-Law problem. You have a DOORMAT problem. You are spineless and lack resourcefulness.[/quote] I agree. Plus, if you can't afford that food, tell them what your budget is and stick to it. If that's problematic for them, tell them you can't afford their visit at this time. Of course, you could also have a DH problem. What is his opinion of all this.[/quote] +1000 Doormat & DH problem.[/quote] No, no. It is a cheapskate and selfish problem! Please recognize it for what it is. Here is an option for the OP, who obviously have low HHI. Try shopping at ALDI.[/quote]
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