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[quote=Anonymous]Just adding a different side to things. Nobody likes my brothers girlfriend. Now they are a match on paper. Both care about looks, both are preppers, both have similar eudcation. But the relationship is so toxic my brother crumples in tears on someone's porch about four times a month. He'll tell me, my parents, his kids, his exes, all about how horrible she is but how can he get back with her because he loves he so much?

If your brother is happy, and this man is kind, I'd let it go. My own husband and I come from different ethnic backgrounds, different religions, have almost 10 years age difference, and one is fat the other skinny. But he is the kindest man I've ever met, and I'd like to think I'm kind too. The lack of drama in the house can't be emphasized too much, IMO. We've been married almost 15 years. Maybe we don't seem a great match on paper, but I have one of the happier marriages in my circle. Relationships are never perfect and IMO no human will meet all your needs and wants. If your brother finds a guy who lets him be himself, who's supportive and kind, who makes him feel good, that's all that really matters. [/quote]

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