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[quote=Anonymous]It took me over a year to get pregnant with our daughter. I was in my late thirties and married late, but had always wanted kids, and my very large and open family knew this. So when these very well-meaning family members (aunts, cousins, you name it) asked me questions about when were going to have kids, my stock answer was "Well, I guess I'm just infertile." That shut every single person up (not my mom- she was super supportive, thank goodness) and I never had to say it twice to anyone. Never gave a single detail and no ever asked for any after that.

Even though you're not close to your mom, I can't imagine that you can't say to her "MOTHER, we've been trying for years and I'm sick and tired to listening to you harp on and on about this. We'll let you know if there's any news, and until then, all I want to hear about my family is how much you love and adore us and our daughter." If she says anything else, just say "Stop. You're not helping." and walk away. My best friend's mom is a pain in the ass, and she has serious issues drawing boundaries with her mom, so I totally get that this is hard. All you want though for these people to stop harping on the issue, and you're going to have to draw that boundary or stop seeing them.

Good luck.[/quote]

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