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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, have you seen your GYN to check if you have a medical condition? It could be a hormonal imbalance or depression, both of which are treatable.

OP, you have to do what you can to make the sex work because marriage is not friendship or a business arrangement. It's a ROMANTIC relationship. You have to accept that like a grownup if you want to stay married. If this is your problem, which it is, you have to solve it.[/quote]

OP here- yes testosterone levels are normal. Probably some depression given 2 deaths in my immediate family over the last two years, including my mother

I understand the need for romance but it is a two way street. If DH wants to feel desired, he needs to work with me to find a style/mood/time/place to help me go from mom to wife. I am just not that good at flipping that switch as soon as son is asleep

PLEASE-someone give me some reassurance that we can make it through this. So many posts just recommend affairs or divorce-not excited for either prospect[/quote]

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