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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not exactly the same situation, but FWIW--My paternal grandparents divorced right around the time I was born, and grandpa immediately remarried a woman younger than my mother.  I was very close with my grandma, less so (but not distant) from my grandpa.  I honestly don't remember how it was in the very early days, but i do remember thinking as I got older how weird it would be to call young new wife "grandma".  All I ever remember calling her was "Aunt Larla."

They had a child (my half-uncle, a few years younger than me, who was always very close with his half-brothers, despite the age gap). Now that half-uncle and I both have kids of our own, she asked that we (me and my sibs, and all the grandkids) all call her "Grandma Larla" now.  It was an awkward request at first, but honestly as a mom myself now, I can see how it must have been sad to her to be "excluded" in that way from the start.  After so many years in the family, I was happy to give her that small thing.

[b]And really, it's polite to call people what they want to be called.[/b][/quote]

If I asked you to call me "Mom", would you?  That's what I want to be called![/quote]

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