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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My fiance absolutely IS 100% the real deal. It's just I guess that we have pasts that are different. I know it's a touchy topic so I didn't go all out there when we talked. I guess I wanted him to see me having a past sort of like his if that makes sense.

He's super pissed that we've hung out with the guy I did what I did and that i told him he was just a friend when he wasn't. He feels like that guy is laughing at him and that everybody now knows. How do I calm all this down?!  He's such a great man I feel awful about all this[/quote]

You don't need to be forgiven about your sexual past. What you did or did not do with others does not make you slutty or damaged. You have nothing to be embarrassed about. That being said, you should not have lied. Maybe not told all the details, but no lying. So at this point, there is nothing you can do about his anger and disappointment. All you can do is keep apologizing for lying (but don't apologize for having a past) and give him time.

But if he is a guy who thinks that his girlfriend having a 'slutty' past means everyone is talking and laughing about him, I don't think he will get over this. He will always judge you. He will never be able to accept you, the real you.

If that happens, you will survive. You will find another great guy who will accept you and your past. Just use this as a learning experience, that you need to be honest (but honesty does not mean reveal all). [/quote]

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