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Reply to "If you had an affair, did you bury your feelings?"
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[quote=Anonymous]My DH was the same way once I found out about his six month affair with a co-worker. Once he ended that relationship, he kept saying although it was over, it was hard to just go back to the way things were between the two of us pre-mistress. It was almost like he was mourning the loss of a loved one. To me that was FAR worse than discovering the affair. It was the weeks that followed where he seemed distant and sad. I was always fearful that he was going to up and leave one day to be with her. He just wasn't himself and picked up bad habits along the way (drinking more). It just wasn't him. Six weeks passed and he eventually came to and changed for the better. It's been almost four years and although I'm grateful for the life we've built since then, I still wonder if I made the right decision when I decided to give him another chance. I love where life has taken me, but that first year was so hard and painful. I wouldn't do it again - not ever. [/quote]
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