Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "If you had an affair, did you bury your feelings?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think you need a break from him. Can he move out for a few months? During this time, you need to go to individual counseling and grieve the loss of your marriage. He needs to go to individual counseling and grieve the loss of his other relationship, without you having to watch. And you both need space to figure out if this marriage is worth saving. I think the separation needs to be real (not just him sleeping in the guest room), and for a real amount of time (not just sleeping at a buddy's house for a week), so that you know neither of you is making a knee-jerk reaction to save the marriage. Agree on visitation for the kids, and what you're doing about the holidays. In the new year, maybe you start talking with your marriage counselor about reconciling and him moving back in, or making the separation a little more permanent.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
