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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If Op is being asked for money to help out then I think it's fine for Op to get the specifics on how that money is being spent. If her sisters are paying themselves a salary for handling this move that isn't necessarily a bad or inappropriate thing but it would be dishonest of them to not mention that to Op. [/quote] This. They know how much the movers quoted them. Not to share that info with OP is shady. She needs to be able to budget her money. My cousin mismanaged funds associated with her mom's healthcare. She asked some family members to help cover costs, then used several hundred dollars to pay for her dd's birthday party and gifts. It happens. OP has the right to know where her money is going and how much things cost. That's not micromanaging. [/quote]
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