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Reply to "I need help not thinking about divorcing my husband."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. The issue isn't new and he did much less around the house before he got laid off. It would be cruel to divorce now while he's struggling with finding work.[/quote] OP, what ARE you getting out of this marriage? Because truthfully, it doesn't sound like he's a good husband, a good father, a good housemate, or a good friend. He sounds like he has a completely unrealistic view of his contributions, and he sounds like he has poor executive functioning and (at the very least) situational depression. If there are things that make all of that worth while, then the reason NOT to divorce him is that thing, whatever it is. Otherwise, your reasons for not divorcing him could include having to pay him alimony and/or child support due to being the only one with an income.[/quote] +1[/quote]
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