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[quote=Anonymous]So the key for men, even husbands to getting sex, is to buy something thoughtful? Or to follow it up with a passionate kiss?

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DCUM has always been the place where I read and post about kid and school questions. I recently wandered over to this forum upon developing a huge crush on someone at work. I am married and have a preschooler. I have been attracted to this man for a few years, but it wasn't something that I spent much time thinking about. This past month it turned into something more consuming. I haven't said or done anything inappropriate, but I want to with an intensity that is crazy. I forgot what it is like to feel so attracted to and turned on by someone. The feeling is amazing. He is not married and a very good hearted person. I don't think that he would ever cross the line with someone who is married. Frankly, I never thought that I would entertain crossing the line. He is in his last year of fellowship and might move on unless he becomes an attending. If he stays, I will have to move to another hospital or get over this.

Anyhow, this experience has brought into focus the fact that my marriage needs help and that I am not the morally upright person that I thought that I was. DH and I are good parents, but for too long our relationship has been on the back burner. Everything has focused on our child, but now I am coming up for air after those baby years, and we let it go for too long. I don't feel physically attracted to DH anymore. We are domestic partners rearing a child together. Our family deserves better. Where to start in this sinking boat? Marriage counseling?[/quote]

You have received some very good advice on this forum on where to start rebuilding your marriage. Do it before you cross any lines. Believe me it can sneak up on you before you know it...happened to me earlier this year. My "crush" (EA) purchased something thoughtful one weekend and wanted me to meet him (outside of work) on lunch break to retrieve. He greeted me with a hug and passionate kiss...and over the course of the following weeks it blossomed into a full blown PA... So, just be careful... this was something I never thought would happen to me.....now I'm in a battle with myself...it only gets harder.[/quote][/quote]

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