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Reply to "I need help not thinking about divorcing my husband."
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[quote=Anonymous]I would have him drive the kids to the family member's house and pick them up. This will mean he has them during the day and can do things with them, story time and the like. It also means that he can have them go to the family member's house when he needs/wants to look for work. He can't look for work all day everyday and if he has the kids around they will provide some comfort and structure for his days. There is very little for a healthy adult to do during the workday unless it's working or raising children. I can understand why he'd be depressed, which doesn't mean his behavior should be allowed to continue. If he won't have the kids some of the time, I really would think of divorce. He is using the bennifits of marriage to his advantage and contributing nothing, not childcare, not housework, not emotional love and companionship. Time to buck up. [/quote]
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