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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, at first I thought you were my husband. But I am in my early 30s he is early 40s and constantly on me to maximize the investment in the education. I just wanted to say that I believe that your frustration is valid. His choices (like mine) have an impact on the entire family, whether we are doing other things great or not. Very often people who are in situations that they feel are worse want to compare and say, oh well at least he isn't doing XYZ. To me, that has nothing to do with the ability of a person to fulfill THEIR potential.

I will say, it is never too late. He can transition anytime that he wants to. Another value of the investment he made at those schools. Usually government time doesn't work against you. But he has to want to do it.

Personally, I know that in the next few years I will be taking a different path, so I don't end up not providing the best contribution I can, and would like to do, for myself and our family.

Good luck[/quote]

Transition to what?  A portfolio of corporate clients?  Really?[/quote]

He could start his own business. He could consult. He could write. He could be a speaker. I don't know DH or his skill set, but why be so close minded?? If there is something he has, it is experience. Think outside of the box.[/quote]

I really doubt this is what OP is looking for -- her husband to gamble their lives away.[/quote]

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