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[quote=Anonymous]NP here.   I have been the primary family contact with a schizophrenic sibling for decades. Sibling has been on and off meds and in multiplel types of supportive housing and treatment settings.  There have also been periods of living on the street. A state has successfully brought proceedings to have sibling be "committed" more than once.  We are talking about a very sick person, but also a person whose illness destroys the lives of those who try most to "help".   Your family has plenty on its plate.  If and when your husband has the energy and resources to be involved in t his danger zone, he can do so.  That will be true every single day whether or not he takes guardian duties.  I would never take such a role for my sibling.  The emotional history would overwhelm my decision making capabilities.  And the collateral damage to my spouse and young children would be extensive.  Let me be blunt.  You don't need any lists or legal analysis.  You may need an excellent psychologist in your corner to help you protect yourself and immediate family.  IT IS HARD.  MIL illness means she can't set limits or understand how much she costs your DH or you.  You and DH have to set the limits.  Error on the side that gives you breathing space.  No guardianship imho.  Best to you both.  Is tough.  [/quote]

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