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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh, I feel sorry for him. He sounds like he's trying to me. Try to be a little more charitable OP. Why not make "movie night" out at the movies and then talk about the movie. Or read a book together and discuss it. Walk together. Board games together.

Do find some other folks to spend your time with too. You don't sound very empathetic to me.[/quote]  I suggest things all of the time...and his response is "sure, if that's what you want to do..." ... I'll then ask him, "what would you like to do?"... his response is always "whatever you want to do"...   So, he will go out with me, again...it's ALWAYS me prompting the discussion of doing anything whether it be a board game, a movie in or out, dinner in or out.... it's always me making the plans.  If I didn't make plans, we would never do anything together. He is perfectly happy with everything the way it is. He loves me deeply...he gets hard just hugging me. I know that he loves me. I have zero doubt in that.  It just seems like over the years he's less engaged in any conversation...  Maybe I should be "happy" that I always get to pick what we do???  Why can't he for once surprise me and make the plans, or give an opinion... [/quote]

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