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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't bring this up. You already made her uncomfortable by asking about the event and she didn't feel like she could be honest with you. If you make this into a thing, then you're just doing more of made her uncomfortable around you in the first place. Back down from all engagements with her. Clearly, she finds your approach overwhelming. I'd be polite and say hello to her but not much else. [/quote]

I agree with this.
Think of it as her doing you a favor by letting you know she doesn't want to be close friends with you. You don't have to wonder, now just do the closed lip smile when you see her and that's that.

Fwiw I had something similar happen over 10 years ago where a friend in the family friend circle I was in announced one day that she had too many obligations between our group, her family, husbands family, work friends, etc to hang out with our group anymore. It was a bizarre announcement that could have been done just by declining invitations, but she tries to do it in a gentle and direct way, I guess.
Maybe she just needs to weed out some people or is lowering the cost of the party, who knows? Maybe her husband has to invite his new work buddies and they redid the guest list, like people do with Christmas cards [/quote]

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