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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Divorcee here.  Listen a lot and don't take sides (i.e. "encouraging civility") unless specifically asked.  My sibling is one of the few people with whom I can speak openly about my ex.  Yes, that means sometimes trashing him and saying some really harsh things.  I have to get it out somewhere.  We both know that friends sometimes get tired of listening to the same complaints, mutual friends don't want to be caught in middle, and kids should not hear this stuff, so she knows her role sometimes is just to let me vent.[/quote]

OP. I get this, totally, and it's what I've done. But when he said he filed on grounds of adultery because someday he wants their kid to know what mom did, I had to bite my tongue. Hoping he can get past the toxicity as the years to by.[/quote]

You don't think your niece/nephew should ever find out that their family broke up due to the mother's cheating on the father?

Not very supportive of you.[/quote]

Her finding out and him WANTING her to find out feel like two different things to me.[/quote]

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