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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If my husband said that to me, I would move out.  If I were you, I'd start socking away some money--save what you would have spent on anything remotely a luxury (new clothes, lunches or coffees out, mani/pedi, whatever) and then leave.  Get your electronic deposit transferred to a new bank account, timed for when you are leaving.  Find a new apartment--even a tiny studio.

He's telling you that he doesn't care how you feel and he's not going to change his behavior.  So, in that sense, he's right--if you don't like it, leave and you won't have to deal with it.  [/quote]

+1.  Start banking your escape money.  Set a target of how much you need to get into a tiny studio and pay immediate bills, and then get out.  Things are only going to get worse for you if you stay.[/quote]

Do you have friends who know this about him? That might be helpful to have them on standby so you can stay with them for a few nights while you find a permanent place to live. I am so sorry you are going through this. Take care of YOU.

Also - if you think he might fight the divorce - then start documenting what he is saying, when and if you can create a paper trail, that would help. [/quote]

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