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Reply to "Husband tells me to move out every time we argue"
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[quote=Anonymous]He knows that he holds all the cards in the relationship. He has all the money and power right now. That is no way to live. He has created a dynamic that is really unhealthy for your relationship and is damaging you as an individual. When you are in a situation like yours, it is hard to see how much it impacts you. Your self esteem is quietly eroded away over a period of years. Soon, you don't even realize how abusive your spouse is being to you because you have been hearing it for so long that it becomes your new normal. I would encourage you to leave for a little while (probably more than a weekend) and get some perspective. While having money adds security to your life, the price you are paying for that security is way too high. You can find happiness. As the other PPs have said -- Do not have kids with this man. If you think it is bad now, I guarantee it will be far worse once he criticizes your parenting skills.[/quote]
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