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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The fact that you even say "our family dynamic" without recognizing that they are now FAMILY is telling...and disturbing.[/quote] Okay, what should I say instead? I am dealing with a very stressful issue here and I am about the only one in the family who is still trying to deal with it. Everyone else has written them off. Why exactly is that disturbing?[/quote] What's disturbing is that a family dynamic must gore and change and adapt and expand to include all of its members--warts and all. You seem to think it is closed, fixed and limited, and that only "perfect" people can be accepted. Those boys are children. Children who come from a broken home. And you are going out of your way to exclude them. Do what you will, but don't wonder why there is now drama, hurt and anger.[/quote]
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