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[quote=Anonymous]Whatever you decide, just be honest with him. I was in the opposite situation. First marriage for me. Much older husband had three young adults. My husband agreed to have children. But secretly, he was ambivalent. Although I was very honest with him, he was in denial, loved the idea of having a much younger wife but grossly underestimated how important raising a family was for me. He stalled, threw up roadblocks, did not cooperate, reneged on a promise to do IVF until it was no longer feasible.. He thought maybe I would outgrow it and his adult kids were so awesome, it would be enough for me. He was wrong. It destroyed us. And now it is too late for me. It is such a cruel thing to do to someone you love. Make your decision quickly and let him know so he can decide to stay or go depending on how important this is to him. [/quote]
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