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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can't have had 4 "significant" and "long-term" relationships and just be in your 30's. [/quote]

I am sorry, but this really isn't true.  I don't disagree that the OP is probably romanticizing someone from her past, and it's not the most mature thing in the world, but it is incredibly common and she's not some freakishly immature nutjob.

An LTR is probably best measured as a percentage of your dating life up to that point: therefore, assuming you start dating at, say, 15, a year long relationship at 20 is equivalent to a 3 year relationship at 30 (both are 20% of your effective dating life).  Regardless, though, it seems to me that any exclusive sexual and dating relationship of over 12 months pretty reasonbly qualifies as an LTR; no, not the same as a decade+ marriage, but long term.

It's very easy to imagine that by 30, the OP has had 4 LTRs.  [/quote]

This is the fourth time something like this has happened (that she's admitting to at least).  Yeah--she's immature and possibly a nutjob, although not freakishly so, given how many other women out there are exactly like her.  This is a person who compulsively finds a way to sabotage their existing relationships, and she's done it four times now.   [/quote]

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