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[quote=Anonymous]sorry but 5'1" and 185 is obese. Let's put aside the attractiveness issue, its not healthy at all. My husband gained weight and I was not happy, because he was making poor choices that I felt were also a bad model for our kids. Eating crap and not exercising. While I never said that I wasn't attracted to him, I said that I thought we both needed to be healthier and that he needed to make better choices and I worried about his health. He has started exercising more and I have been making healthier dinners and he's lost a bit.

Its really hard to get into an exercise groove with little kids--what about getting a treadmill though? I found that until my youngest was 2, I could only get short (20 min) sessions in but the exercise helped me feel more energetic. Also, I didn't have time to make lunch, but I did make healthier choices. Have a discussion with your wife about health, not weight.  make it a together thing.

For everyone saying that he must have compassion and understanding that his wife had a baby--yes, he must. But if she is gainging weight becasue she is making poor choices, its only going to be harder for her to lose it, feel healthy, feel good. And I think its is the duty of both spouses to stay healthy for each other and support each other in that goal. [/quote]

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