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[quote=Anonymous]Look the best thing for everyone is just be who you are. I doubt she is expecting you to be rich. Remember that she is a SIL and I doubt she is looking for a friend. Try to just be a SIL. Be polite and not have expectations. SIL's make notoriously lousy potential friends. I'm not wealthy but my husbands income rose dramatically when we were younger and the envy and greed from others was horrible. We ended up losing a great friend because she just couldn't stand that our house was bigger than hers. My family came out of the woodwork with their hands open. Both of these experiences have left us reluctant to be open or trusting. Your SIL may have walls built up internally to prevent an easy friendship so try too hard or it may be misinterpreted as needy or greedy.[/quote]
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