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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If someone wants to leave, let them go. Living well is the best revenge. [/quote]

I couldn't agree more![/quote]

I also wondering if he has either met someone or wants to see what is out there and not feel guilty.  Some DCUMers have posted about the 180.  I don't know all the details and would probably not explain it correctly but I know survivinginfidelity website has more details. As for dealing with the news, what can you do but put one foot in front of the other and keep going forward for yourself and your child?  Personally, I would try to make sure there is an informal agreement about joint custody as you go thru this process so DH isn't living la vida loca and shirking his reponsibility to his child and this gives you a break to get done what things you need to get done.  Also not sure about your finances but if they are joint, I would move half the amount to a personal account and start looking at what you need to do to separate finances.  You would like to think DH will do the honorable thing and make sure his child and mother of his child are not left destitute but who the heck knows what he will do given this bombshell. I wouldn't be big on trust right now. I know there is a lot to consider but also think about joining a divorce mom group. At a minimum you want to get the perpective of people that have BTDT if you don't already have friends that can help.  [/quote]

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