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[quote=Anonymous]OP, my ex used to switch the schedule a lot to accommodate his work commitments, which he would often make without regard to the schedule. There were several times when I had to remind him of our agreement, which specifically states that if he cannot care for DD on his designated evenings, he has to ask me before he asks anyone else, and that  it's not okay for him to simply make a plan for DD's care on times when he will be out of town and not tell me about that.

Ultimately, we have changed the schedule half a dozen times (without going to court every time) to accommodate what he believes his schedule will be, only to have that change a few weeks later.

I do not like it. It's not good for DD, who never knows what's going on. This fall, I am requesting that we change the schedule to one that is stable and predictable, week to week. I am not optimistic that he will go for it, and my next move will be along the lines of "every other weekend, then" because he cannot commit.[/quote]

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