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[quote=Anonymous]I would say that whatever it is that pushes a person over from annoying to creepy has its basis in creating fear.

Something about you is making me wonder if I would be ok if you decided to escalate and that there is an element of me that thinks its possible you might escalate.

That said, I think some women are impossible to please on the creepy front. I mean guys are out there having to be the one to initiate these conversations. I have one friend that thinks every male that talks to her is 'creepy' when in reality she just isn't comfortable in her own skin and guys talking to her heightens that feeling of discomfort. Therefore no matter what the guy does she feels threatened and therefore the guy is creepy. That isn't fair. Like what PP said above, I would not be creeped out if I had on an OBX t-shirt and a guy commented on how he liked NC too. I would be creeped out if I made an innocuous smile of thanks back and he continued to try to talk to me aggressively.

Being able to read social cues is critical, but unless that majority of women think you're creepy I wouldn't assume you ARE creepy because one woman told you you are. Sometimes we get a little carried away and every human interaction can be perceived as creepy. [/quote]

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