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[quote=Anonymous]Three things I learned doing this a month ago:

[list]1) Try this for at least three weeks. It takes at least that long to get into a routine and decide if you're okay with the routine. And give yourself loads of flexibility on work hours, pick up/drop off.  
2) YOU should be in charge of bottles, especially if your wife is planning to pump at work. My husband completely took over every aspect of our son's food (prepping for the next day, talking with daycare about how much is needed, cleaning, freezing, etc.). Own it and it will be a HUGE stress release for your wife.
3) Do dry runs. Even though this means "fewer maternity leave days" it helps immensely.  Drop baby off day 1 for 3-4 hours while you/she go to the store, pick up the house. Day 2, 5-6 hours. Prove that you can do it and everyone will be okay.[/list]

And remember, it's not natural to leave your child with strangers, no matter how much you trust them. It will get easier, but it will NEVER be easy. But continue to remind yourself and her why you're doing it, the long-term benefits, etc. (Maybe have her read Lean In--it actually has a ton of information about sharing child care 50/50 and the benefits to being a working mom.)

Good luck![/quote]

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