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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]...The thing is -- you need to feel comfortable talking to guys about these things and your expectations.  The right type of guys will engage in these conversations and be up front with you.  Those looking for a hook up will steer clear of you -- and that is not really a bad thing.

Good luck.  I think he is really into you.[/quote]

What this person said. :)

Whether looking for a long-term or hookup, the thing is good people (and good people sometimes go for hookups, too) usually find talking about it a big relief. The goal isn't to push someone into a relationship he/she doesn't want, it's to find out what the other person's thinking, share what you're thinking, see if there's enough of a match, and then make decisions based on that information.

Like the FWB situation? Fine. Nothing wrong with that. And for yourself, don't feel like just because you've been seeing each other for months and sleeping together for awhile that it means YOU have to love him, either.  But I do think what you have to do is be honest with yourself and also with him.

I've had a variety of different relationships, and they've all benefitted from communication like this.

Good luck, OP. :)[/quote]

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