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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's totally appropriate to have the exclusivity conversation at this point.  If he balks or you "scare him away", he wasn't really interested in a relationship.  My guess is that he already thinks you are in a relationship.

Most guys that just want to have sex are not interested in hanging out with your friends or taking you on dates, etc.  Does he set aside time to be with you or does he just call you at the last minute and come over?

I think six weeks wasn't too early to have sex -- especially given how often you were seeing each other.  Quite frankly, most guys would not have the patience to wait that long if they were only interested in sex.

The thing is -- you need to feel comfortable talking to guys about these things and your expectations.  The right type of guys will engage in these conversations and be up front with you.  Those looking for a hook up will steer clear of you -- and that is not really a bad thing.

Good luck.  I think he is really into you.[/quote]

Thanks. This was most helpful. We are meeting for dinner at 8 tonight. I am going to bring it up. My guy is telling me its not just FWB, but I had a friend who went through something similar. After several months she asked him to be her date to a wedding. He was surprised and told her they were just " FWB". She was really hurt.

In my case, he or we plan things in advance. Some things may be last minute, but we usually plan days ahead of time. Weekends are mostly spent together or with friends. I sleep over 95% of the time. The last minute occasions are usually after work. He will always says " Babe..I know you're likely bored or sick of me, but want to have dinner?"

My last boyfriend turned out to be a narcissist. I didn't know anything about NPD until the last couple months of our relationship. He put on a great show until the very end. I am cautious because I don't want to make the same mistakes again. [/quote]

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