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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So you think that, what, six months to a year ago when she set the date and started planning this wedding, your friend anticipated you would be on a business trip over those days and would be unable to change your flight so that you flew directly to Miami rather than back to DC first, scheduled the wedding to conflict with that trip, sent you an invitation, and then when you told her you couldn't make, decided to tell you that she'd gone through all those machinations to make sure you couldn't be there, rather than just deciding not to invite you at all? Do you realize how insane that sounds? Even if she's not usually the joking type, it is far more likely that she was joking than that she actually planned her whole wedding around excluding you.[/quote]

She didn't plan her wedding until the Supreme Court Decision at the end of June.  [b]A few weeks later we had dinner and I told her about my trip.  A week later, the invitations came out.
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I'm not saying she planned for me not to be able to come, but the date was not set six months to a year ago.  And I'm willing to entertain thoughts that she was joking, but not based on the how long she's had it scheduled.

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Actually when you put it like that OP, it sounds like she did schedule it when you couldn't make it. [/quote]

Although--how big is the wedding? It took me more than a week to book a venue, get an officiant, and address and mail out my invitations. I would assume all that stuff was already in the works. [/quote]

I can't imagine it's very big because they were already married in California when that became legal (and I will admit, it's why I was more flippant about missing this than I probably should have been).  Although I suppose it's possible they had a second wedding partially planned if it became legal everywhere.[/quote]

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