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Er, maybe this is a case of OP projecting her own feelings about the teaching profession (insecurity?) when finding she's not attracting or connecting with potential partners??

I dunno. Native Washingtonian, acclimated to the "high power" DC thing, so I understand the level of self-promotion that can accompany the dating scene. What I don't get is how being a teacher would be looked down upon. Unless you're limiting conversation to classroom talk alone, I don't see why people wouldn't see what you have to offer.

Maybe work on your pitch? If you value yourself, there's no reason others wouldn't see that confidence/dedication/interest and run with it.

I'm an academic. I say I teach, when asked, before mentioning it's at a university. I don't find that my experience is dismissed. On the contrary, I think folks like the idea of teaching---lawyers, lobbyists, anyone. It's honorable work that folks seem to recognize. Nothing to apologize for, OP. You should never feel "less than."

Focus on confidence. The teaching piece isn't what's turning people off. Make sure you can have a conversation that's broad enough that people find it easy to connect. Lead with your interests, along with your teaching. If you're out at a party/bar/event, mention why you're there before delving into the typical DC chat about job titles.

I never ask what people do for a living. I always ask what keeps them busy these days. It makes room for more interesting conversation, like...training for a run or prepping for a trip. If you're more inclusive, people will respond with more than how they get a paycheck.
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