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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a 30 year old woman and I'm having a hard time finding a guy who will give me a real chance. I have been told that I'm very attractive, (I have a sexy demeanor) very thoughtful, and have been told by numerous guys that I would be a great mom. I'm a teacher, work hard, own my own house, and is great with kids. It seems the men around here are looking for "status" - a lawyer or dentist wife who comes from money. If I'm at a bar, or meet someone casually and I tell them I'm a teacher, I lose their attention. Is this just DC? I feel like they immediately put me in the "fuckable" category, but not someone they would date seriously. What are you guys looking for? [/quote]

You are incredibly wrong and off base, which leads me to believe that you're not telling us the whole truth. I'm a guy and I, in no way, look down upon teachers. Nor do any of my friends. As usual with women who preface very early in their posts that "I've been told I'm very attractive (I have a sexy demeanor)" :/ :/ :/...there's a presumption that you "deserve" something that you're not getting. Like you're pursuing high status men who happen to look down upon teachers (I'm sure you'll find guys like this in exurban VA or western MD).

You sound insufferable. Why would men want to date you seriously? And where do you live, anyway, if you're a 30 y/o woman who owns her own home on a teacher's salary?[/quote]

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