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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, this change and change can be terrifying. I found that when terrible things happen to me, it really helps if I just take a step back, a deep breath and try to accept it as my new reality. That doesn't mean don't grieve or be sad, but allow yourself to absorb the truth of it. As in yes, I have cancer. I really do. And I am going to fight it. Or when my dad was dying, I just had to keep telling myself that yes, my father was dying, but I wasn't. I guess what I'm saying is don't rail against it and bemoan it. Accept it and move on to making the most of your new reality. If it helps, my mom left my dad when she was fifty and was remarried within a year. [/quote] First, good luck with your cancer fight. Second, doesn't say a lot about your mom if she was remarried within a year. Probably had her eye on the next husband for a while, surprised your dad by leaving, and then your dad was alone in the long run.[/quote]
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