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[quote=Anonymous]Me, me, me! I'm 42, am single and have 2 kids (13 and 11). Let me just say that this is going to be what you make it, sweets.

I'm happy, I have friends and yes, my kids are a lot older than yours but I get to go out when they're with their dad and have some "me" time to do the things I like doing. My g/friends are what keep me laughing and living life to the full and my kids are what make me happy. Take this time to get to know yourself again : find a sport you like, take up hobbies, learn new things, meet new people. Make this an opportunity, not a schlepp you have to drag yourself through.

You're not out there looking for a new man, you're just out there living and taking it easy on yourself so you have time to heal. And you will. You're going to be ok.

You.are.going.to.be.ok. Repeat after me...

Give yourself a break, be kind to yourself and pick your days where you CHOOSE to be happy until most days become happy ones all by themselves. If you do meet someone, take your time to get to know them but don't expect someone to come and save you. You can do this alone. Really. You can. If you meet someone who makes you happy, then take that path.

Whatever happens, you can handle it. This is an adventure. Have fun with it.
xxx

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