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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can't control other people, you can only control you. Expect the SILs boys to maintain the same standards of behavior as the rest of the family (once those have been explained of course) and then enforce them. If SIL cries to BIL oh well. And if he gets upset just stay calm yourself and say you of course you love the. And want them there as long as they comport with the general expectations. Your BIL and SIL are being unreasonable and manipulative in their behavior to the detriment of everyone else. Stop making excuses and accommodating it.[/quote] And, yet, at the same time I can see how this sort of arrangement - going to a new stepdad's, brother's , in-law's house would be...daunting to a couple of awkward little boys. [/quote]
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