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[quote=Anonymous]I would hang out with your nieces as much as possible under the guise of "aunt-niece" time. I wouldn't focus so much on "girl time" unless you want the new stepmom along, which the girls may not. How close were you to the nieces when their mom was alive? Would it feel contrived for them that you suddenly want to hang out?

As for the new stepsons -- eh. So they're fat and play video games all day -- why does that bother you and your family? Continue on with your day as planned. If everyone was going to the beach that day -- announce that and kindly invite them along, if they don't want to step away from the TV, their loss (and frankly your nieces may have a better time going with your fam anyway). Same for meals -- have whatever everyone was planning on having, and if their mom wants to whip up mac and cheese at every meal, great for her.

I'm also not seeing why farting is such a big deal? Don't all boys and many men fart all the time? Were they doing it on purpose? How about you give them no attention for it?

I wonder what stepmom and boys are really like. If they haven't have a true family life, they may not know how to behave around you, their stepdad, and the new big family -- so they may behave in a way that they know will get them attention - negatively. If they/their mom WANT to be part of a family, there's the possibility of a real Brady Bunch type of thing where everyone comes together. If it's clear that's not what they want -- then focus on your nieces and your own fam and ignore them.[/quote]

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