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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^You know, regarding the PP who accused the other PP of bragging, I have the same problem as the OP and I always figured that everyone sees it as 100% a good thing, and never felt comfortable bringing up this problem.

But its so nice to hear how many other women have dealt with this issue, and hear how some have dealt with it.

That's why I'm grateful to OP for bringing it up.

Just because you can't understand a problem, doesn't mean it's not a serious issue for someone else.  Have some compassion/empathy.[/quote]

This hardly qualifies as a problem . What doesn't she try online dating ? Sounds like she's just looking for attention here. I also look very young for my age too. I'm 27 and married. Over the weekend I was at an event and my husband said one of his work colleagues thought I was a teenager. I find it hard to believe that men aren't interested in you. There must be some other problem here. Men are genetically pre-disposed to find "fertile" women more attractive. Women reach their peak fertility at around 15-20 and hence men inherently find women of this age to be the most attractive. [/quote]

Sigh.

It's not an issue with getting attention.  Trust me, I get a TON of attention from guys.  The problem is, when guys your own age or older are thinking they've approached a teen, it drives away a lot of the men who are looking for equals and leaves you with the men who are interested in dating someone whose just out of high school.  Which is to say, a pretty creepy bunch.

You may be okay with those guys being your main dating pool, if you truly think you fall into that group (keep in mind, being told you look like a teen one time does not constitute a legitimate problem- I have NEVER not been carded and it's a running joke in my friend group and family that I look so strangely young- it's a habitual thing for me).  But keep in mind that not all of us are, and this thread is for THAT group.[/quote]

Why don't you just try online dating and stop complaining.

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