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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have heard from everyone that I am being a bad mother by letting my kids go "hungry". It is really just one child who always complains about being hungry. I told him that there is a difference between being hungry and "I could eat some more". We go out and he wants me to order two meals for him. He is always interested in events that have a lot of food. I give him fair portions at dinner, then cut him off. I don't even offer a "healthy snack" I just want him to be able to function without being stuffed. He is in the 95th%ile for height and the 70th%ile for weight. His pediatrician is happy and says that it is not unreasonable for them to be lanky in the tween years. I grew up in another country and no one ate the way my kids do. I remember real hunger, not because of poverty, but because of logistics. Food was not everywhere, so if we were at a place with no food, you went hungry until we got home. I remember gnawing hunger at times, where we eat anything. That was just the way it was. My kids have never skipped a meal. At times when they say they are hungry, they get picky! No, they don't want cookies with chocolate chips, or a peach, or chicken. That is a funny kind of hungry. Maybe we define that term differently, but for now, I am pleased that they are a little thin. [/quote] Boy, you are clueless. He's a teen BOY! Get that, BOY, BOY, BOY, BOY, BOY! Feed him. [/quote] I am feeding him.[/quote]
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