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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Would this conversation count?

Situation: first hookup with a guy I'd known for a few months.  Could either be a ONS or the start of a FWB type deal, not specified at the time.  Both knew it wouldn't be a relationship.

I was using my hand on him, and he was getting pretty worked up.

Him: we should stop
Me: do you want me to stop?
Silence

Few minutes later...
Him: we really should stop now
Me: if you want me to stop, I will
Silence

Few minutes later...
Him: ok, now we really need to stop
Me: I will stop as soon as you tell me that you WANT me to stop
Him: but... But... I don't have a condom or anything...
Me: oh, that's what you're concerned about?  Don't worry, I have another idea... (gave him a bj to completion)

I worried a little that I may have been too aggressive, but he told me later that he loved it.  And he did come back for more the next week, turning it into a FWB arrangement that lasted for a little over a year, so I don't really feel bad for ignoring his initial "we should stop".[/quote]

Okay, I just need to say that if you've known someone for a few months and then hook up with them, it's not a one night stand. Even if you never see or talk to them again afterwards. One night stands are when you meet someone for the first time, have sex with them, and then don't see or speak to them afterwards. [/quote]

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